To elongate your neck:

• Choose v-neck tops
• Tie hair up or have a short hair style
• Wear blouses with pointed collars unbuttoned
• Choose long chained necklaces and dangling earrings
• Don’t wear turtlenecks, tops with round necklines, or choker style necklaces.

To shorten your neck:

• Choose turtlenecks and jewel neck shirts
• Let hair down 
• Wear rounded or short earrings
• Wear blouses with the collar up
• Accessorize with thick jewelry

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